I was delighted and honoured beyond belief to be nominated for this award not once, but twice this week. So grateful thanks go to Kate at The Quiet Knitter and Joanne at The Portobello Book Blog. I’ve not received an ‘award’ before beyond my NetGalley badges, and as this is awarded by fellow bloggers, it makes me feel as though I’ve finally arrived to be mentioned among some of my own favourite bloggers.
Here are the award rules:
1. Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
2. Write a post to show your award.
3. Give a brief story of how your blog started.
4. Give two pieces of advice to new bloggers.
*5. Select 15 other bloggers you want to give this award to.
*6. Comment on each blog and let them know you have nominated them and provide the link to the post you created.
How “Jill’s Book Cafe” started
My blog began as a way of bringing all my reviews together in one place. I used to award stars on Goodreads but had never written a review until I was introduced to, and thankfully accepted by NetGalley in Feb 2014. Suddenly it was in at the deep end, learning to write reviews and post them to Goodreads and Amazon and anywhere else it was appropriate. I cringe when I see my early reviews (and some later ones on a bad day). Once I started writing reviews I realised there was a world out there full of other reviewers and bloggers that had their own websites/blogs and began to follow some of them. In Nov 2014 I decided in a moment of madness to start my own blog and this is the result. I already had the name because I have a Facebook page that I use to post free and bargain books and it made sense to keep the same name.
I still feel I have a lot to learn and view myself primarily as a reviewer. I’ve dipped my toe in the water of Q&A’s and author features which I need to pursue as time permits.
Advice to New Bloggers
It’s your blog so be yourself and don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. Everyone has different time constraints and abilities, so do what you can, when you can. By all means look at other blogs for inspiration or as something to aspire to, but don’t fall into the trap of constantly comparing yours to theirs. People following your blog want to know what you think, what you recommend and what you read.
Don’t put undue pressure on yourself, learn to say no – it’s easy to get carried away with NetGalley for example, but just remember all those book that are dropping on to your Kindle actually need to be read and require a review. Similarly when you get asked to review a book it’s very flattering, (and hard to say no) but if it’s not your style/genre or you don’t have time, don’t be afraid to politely say so.
Put your review policy on your blog – while many times, it will be ignored by people who think it doesn’t apply to them, or just don’t bother checking, it gives you the opportunity to state what you read, what formats you prefer and also whether your currently accepting reviews. It also makes it much easier to say no going forward.
Don’t be scared to interact with other bloggers – when I started I was scared stiff that I was trying to ‘muscle in’ on an arena that full of established bloggers. The reality was, that I was accepted as a fellow blogger and made to feel welcome. I count myself lucky to be able to connect and interact with those bloggers that I used to follow and respect (and still do). There’s probably no problem or question that you’ve got that someone else hasn’t had so don’t be afraid to ask.
My Blogger Nominees
OK the hard bit. I’m now supposed to nominate 15 blogs and their bloggers. As I follow way more than 15 my alphabetical selection is made up of those bloggers that I regularly interact directly via my blog. What I love when I look through this list, is how it exemplifies what I enjoy about blogging. My nominees offer a variety of genres, are of differing ages (I’m old enough to be a granny to some), are not all located in the UK which gives me a different perspective and are not all long established blogs. Several on my list started blogging after me, but are already way ahead in regularly of diving in and making an impression, which proves there is room for everyone.
I’m aware of all the pressures we put on ourselves (despite exhortations not to – see above advice) so I’m not adding to that by asking my nominated blogs to take part – unless they want to. This is my way of saying thanks for accepting me, for helping me and giving me something to aspire to.
- Being Anne – Anne
- Chat About Books – Kerry
- Cleopatra loves Books – Cleo
- Chocolatenwaffles – Donna
- Fictionophile -Lynne
- It’s Book Talk – Renee
- Keeper of Pages– Janel
- Kraftireader – Adele
- Lit. Wit. Wine & Dine – Ann Marie
- Portobello Book Blog – Joanne
- Rather Too Fond of Books – Hayley
- Short Book and Scribes – Nicola
- The Book Review Cafe – Lorraine
- The Misstery – Annie
- The Quiet Knitter – Kate
You are such a lovely soul Jill, massive hugs to you my lovely xx
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You’re welcome Kate, you are always helpful and supportive and it’s a pleasure to ‘know’ you.
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you too Jill x
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Many thanks for the nomination Jill love your post x
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You’re welcome Lorraine x
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Thanks for the nomination, Jill. My interactions with you on your blog were a major factor in me setting up my own blog. I have always enjoyed reading your reviews and, of course, your weekly confession sheet.
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PS Number 2 on your advice list is spot on, but it ain’t going to happen I’m afraid!
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Which proves my point 4 even if point 2 is a non starter :-). Your blog is always a temptation x
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Indeed, bloggers are lovely to each other. I was similarly concerned about jumping in to an established community.
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Congratulations on your award Jill:) Thank you for nominating me, I’ve so enjoyed chatting with you these last few months since I joined the blogging world!!
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Thanks Renee – it’s your award as well now! xx
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It’s sooo easy to get carried away on Netgalley and although I admit it’s really good advice I think this is something that EVERY blogger misjudges in the beginning and will learn the hard way ;-). I started also with just writing reviews, for myself and thought why not a blog. I love reading other blogger’s stories about how they started :-)!
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I’m still paying the price Inge with a backlog to clear. I suspect it’s a rite of passage that all NetGalley bloggers go through 🙂
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Exactly! It’s like an all you can eat buffet of books so who can hold back the first time they see something like that ?!
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Not helped of course, especially in the beginning by not knowing whether you’ll get them or not. Or when you do get them they all come together even though when you requested them there was a space between. I used to wish there was a cancel request button when I had books pending for a long time. These days it’s usually a fairly quick response and rarely a rejection so I’m on safer ground and request things far less often and plan ahead.
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Thanks for the mention Jill & some great advice to fellow bloggers! I’m sure I interact with my fellow bloggers/reviewers more than I do with my friends outside the community 🙈 as some now refer to my blogging as my part time job lol!
Have a lovely weekend 😊xx
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Giving advice is easy, it’s taking that the problem. I’m probably still guilty of doing what I tell others not to do! Have a great weekend xx
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Great advice and thanks for the mention!
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You’re welcome Joanne .
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very sound advice about making decisions about how you want your blog to look/feel rather than feeling you have to follow the pack. Well done on the award too
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Thanks and trust all went well this week for you?
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I really enjoyed this post and I always love reading your blog. 🙂 Thank you so much for mentioning me, I really appreciate that. x
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You’re very welcome Hayley, my blog has only grown because of the confidence I gained from yourself and others who took the time with me.
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Thanks, Jill! I’m unbelievably grateful for this award as well as your friendship. You’ve offered some great advice here. If only I had read this when I first started blogging… xx
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You’re welcome Ann Marie, I felt the same when I was nominated so it was great to have the chance to share it with my blogging friends. As for the advice it’s easier said than done, but if it helps somebody else that’s a result. xx
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Thanks for the nom Jill ❤
I loved the answers you said, especially the advice!
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Happy to have been nominated which means I can share the award. xx
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Awwwww, how lovely Jill 😊 Thanks so much for your nomination and for all of your support. x
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And for all yours Kerry, this was a great opportunity to say thanks to some of my blogging buddies xx
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Thank you so much for nominating me Jill and you give some very wise advice here… I can’t look at my early reviews but practice whilst not making perfect, does improve the quality and we all have to start somewhere.
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It’s always easier to say than to do, but it might help someone. I think we’d all probably say something similar. Thanks for your support, you are one of my ‘aspire to’ bloggers ☺
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Aw thank you but I really don’t think I deserve that position-I love your blog 😊
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Ha ha my blog, my thoughts, we’ll agree to differ on the first point. Thanks for your support ☺
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Such a good post. It’s so interesting to see it from ‘the other side’, as it were; writers often feel nervous when submitting books!
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Thanks Terry. I think the nerves from either side are helped by removing the labels ‘author’ and ‘blogger’. Easier said than done, but we’re all just people at the end of the day.
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